Raising consciousness for a new world
Emotional Health
"Being able to be your true self is one of the strongest components of good mental health"
- Lauren Fogel Mersy, n.d.
“All stress, anxiety, depression, is caused when we ignore who we are, and start living to please others.”
- Paulo Coelho
Fear as a Barrier to Growth

Fear is a primal emotion with survival value. It has served to preserve life and limb in all of evolutionary history. And each of us has encountered fear in every stage of life - fear of the monster under the bed, fear of failure, fear of ostracism, of childbirth, of something bad about to happen to you or your loved ones — and of course, fear of death.
Benefits acknowledged and duly mentioned, we can look at the level of fear in the general population, its manifestations and consequences, to what is generating fear nowadays and whether it is an emotion that can slow one’s growth in consciousness, and do we need to mitigate it somehow?
As a doctor, I have watched the level of anxiety climb astronomically, in older people, in middle aged people, and especially in young people. The culture surrounding us is changing rapidly. Thinking about my childhood, I grew up with my mother doing the wash by hand, cooking every meal from scratch. No TV till I was ten - we would read and listen to the radio! But I always felt secure. My mother was home with me all the time. My father came home every night, drank rarely and never to excess, and never shared his worries with me. Today kids of the middle class (if there is still such a thing) are worried about their “online image”, about their gender assignment, and whether there will be a school shooting in their school today. Hiding under a desk to protect yourself from a nuclear attack has given way to active shooter drills that all to often are soon tested with an actual attack. Families are as likely to break up as they are to stay together, and abuse of the vulnerable is rampant. Even if it isn’t in your family, you are affected by the ambient energies and beliefs. Kids are exposed to everything under the sun on a tiny screen that has no morals. No wonder people are anxious and in fear!
Our moral standards have been eroded by those who should be pillars of decency. When is the last time you heard the phrase “my fellow Americans”, rather than more divisive, derisive and degraded comments?
So the cultural foundations of our values are crumbling. Fear is the result.
I propose here a few places to find the antidote. Like every malady, the underlying cause must be rooted out for each individual. What I propose here is some remedies, - from simple to more challenging - that you might find helpful in determining your own sources of fear, and being able to do something about it.
Some of the underlying correctable causes of ungrounded (not related to a current threat) chronic fear and anxiety:
Trauma in the past that has left an imprint but is not imminent
Some of the best therapies are talking to a good therapist, EMDR, body work, meditation, yoga, psychedelics. Pick one.
Hormone treatment, especially for midlife anxiety or sleep issues - bioidentical progesterone is available in low dose topical creams from any good health food store. It does not require a prescription in the doses available OTC. Women can hugely relieve their anxiety - no Xanax required - with a dab or two of progesterone every day. No need to fear cancer, this is the natural hormone, not an invention of the Pharma industry, - the real instigator of cancer in the infamous Women’s Health Initiative was the “progestins”. Yam or soy extracts provide the chemical starting point for the topical progesterone but the end product is chemically the same as human progesterone. Other hormones can balance the brain and body, but progesterone is the premier calming hormone for the brain, as well as improving bone density. Good place to start.
Inflammation in the brain is likely to cause anxiety, also irritability, confusion, brain fog, cognitive dysfunction, and many psychiatric conditions. This often comes from inflammatory foods - hyper processed, nutritionally depleted food-like substances that usually come in a box or a bag or a can. The antidote is whole foods grown organically (without toxic chemicals).
Another big cause of brain inflammation is inflammation in the gut. A distorted microbiome directly affects the body’s ability to make serotonin, among other beneficial substances. Of course, the underlying cause is the same, - a poor diet laced with poisons.
Toxins are everywhere, including the blood of newborn babies. Microplastics circulate in our blood, lodge in our brains, and join the pesticides, herbicides, plastic additives already there, To avoid all those chemicals is not possible on the Earth at this time. The milk of Laplanders contains mercury, though their teeth do not. We can make the best choices in food, in cosmetics, in furniture and paints, etc., and still have exposure. There are protocols for detoxification - sweating, chelation, taking binders, -that can help. Doing them on a rotating basis throughout the year is a very good idea and may help with anxiety.
Toxic ideas also pervade our zeitgeist. But the antidote to propaganda is psychedelics, said one pundit (possibly Terence McKenna?). But fear almost always gets in the way. People fear losing control, of losing their minds, indeed - of losing their lives -to a psychedelic experience. The very thing that could help them shed the chains of fear seems the scariest thing in the world, and many will refuse. Fear of death cannot survive the direct perception of our immortality as a soul.
My goal in presenting this material is to challenge you, the reader, to open your mind to the possibility of healing through a glimpse of the infinite. Personal trauma dissolves in the face of eternity. Beliefs that limit us and prevent our growth in consciousness are suddenly seen to be false and outdated. Truisms we imbibed in childhood and have never questioned, come up for review.
Why sit in your seat of fear one moment longer? Why not take the challenge, take the leap, and see what all the fuss is about?
Constrained by fear, the human being is less than she could be. Walk through fear and find it is only an idea, not a real threat, and find your fierceness, your uniqueness and your destiny.
Staying Grounded, Resilient and Strong in Difficult Times
by Birgit Zacher Hanson

We always have a choice how we respond.
Another day of waking up to the chaos in the world unfolding at rapid speed. And while I have not watched the news a lot, being in Spain right now adds a bit more urgency to wanting to know what’s going on.
And I noticed a big shift in me. I expected to feel the familiar anguish, anger, and anxiety that used to come over me during times of war and rising instability… But instead, I felt strong, resilient, and full of energy.
Naturally - my heart aches deeply for all of us — especially for those enduring unimaginable suffering, loss, and grief. Just the uncertainty alone is enough to deregulate our nervous systems, plus the anger resulting from feeling powerless.
At the same time, I deeply feel the resilience and strength I cultivated over time. An inner core stability, feeling centered and grounded, and optimistic - which is clearly a result of my coach mindset and the many practices I have. It is not a natural response to the outer circumstances.
Last year’s events didn’t just upset me. They felt like my muscle fibers had been shredded. It was that kind of pain — the kind that goes into the deepest layers of your being. But something interesting happens to muscles when their fibers tear. They grow back stronger. Somewhere along the way, I didn’t just cope but actually and thankfully became resilient beyond my wildest imagination.
So this morning I took inventory of the things I do that help me stay grounded, resilient, and even stronger in difficult times — what Nassim Nicholas Taleb calls becoming “anti-fragile” in his book Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder (Incerto). Here are 25+ practices that help me and might inspire you in some way:
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Breathing consciously and intentionally.
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Meditating.
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Slowing down when every cell in my body wants to rush.
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Walking.
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Reframing challenges - This happened for me.
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Making it and yourself right - Traffic delay? Yay!
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Sauna and Cold plunging.
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Learning new languages.
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Learning new dances.
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Sharing authentically with friends.
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Doing “pleasure research” — asking what I truly desire and give myself permission to explore.
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Choosing music or podcasts that lift my energy instead of doom-scrolling.
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Eating less but better quality food.
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Fasting often.
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Drinking more water and taking vitamins. Avoiding toxic conversations.
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Saying yes to things outside my comfort zone daily - get a nose piercing?
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Taking time to feel both the good and the hard.
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Expanding joyful moments through gratitude.
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Erasing “failure” and celebrating being a beginner.
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Visiting unfamiliar places.
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Bragging a lot and celebrating accomplishments.
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Asking myself daily: what do I care about deeply?
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Making requests — asking one or many to dance.
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Staying present instead of withdrawing or giving up.
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Smiling lots and initiating small acts of kindness.
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Dressing and choosing accessories with intention.
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Seeking communities that lift me higher. Hugging, laughing, and loving a lot.
Caring for yourself is caring for others and for our communities. An angry, outwardly hostile but inwardly fragile body will not be able to rise to the occasion when the world needs us most - and may even cause damage. And if you’re not able to change the world today… I hope you are at least dancing.
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Emotional Health is a subset of overall mental health. It is concerned with how people think and feel about themselves and their surroundings, influencing their overall well-being and ability to cope with life's challenges. Emotional health is a crucial component of overall well-being, as it affects how individuals interact with others, handle stress, and maintain relationships. Emotional health doesn’t mean always being happy or avoiding emotional pain—it means having the tools and support to process those feelings in a healthy way.
Emotional Health is important for several reasons:
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Well-being: Enhances overall mental and physical health.
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Resilience: Helps in adapting to life changes and challenges.
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Relationships: Fosters better interpersonal connections.
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Decision Making: Influences rational and emotional decision-making processes.
You can improve your mental health by many means:
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Mindfulness and Self-Reflection: Regularly assessing and managing emotions.
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Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Engaging in stress-reducing activities like exercise or meditation.
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Social Support: Building strong, supportive relationships
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Professional help: when your social support is not appropriate of knowledgeable to help you deal with deep emotional trauma
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